
20 Aug Discussion Guide Stories: Everybody’s Got One: The Poor Widow
Before We Get Started
For our discussion today, we will be using the sermon series discussion guides. If you would like to follow along you can access this discussion guide on the website at mosaicchurchaustin.com and then select “community group resources” in the menu options.
Prayer
Because the primary goal of our time together is to establish relationships and learn how to walk with one another in all that God has called us to be and do, we’d like to begin by praying for one another. So, does anyone have anything you’d like us to pray for or anything to share regarding how you’ve seen God moving in your life that we can celebrate together?
This Week’s Topic
Today, we continue our series titled Stories: Everybody’s Got One, in which we examine how to make sense of our own world without God’s story. Who are we? Where do we fit? How can we see ourselves in it and connect to it in a way that actually changes our lives for the better? Join us for a four-week look at four incredible stories of people who found their lives swept up in a story much larger than their own lives.
Today’s Topic
The Poor Widow
Discussion Questions
What is one of your favorite stories, from real life, a movie, or a book, that fits the “American Dream” narrative?
A Brief Look at the Widow’s Story
2 Kings 4:1-7
Now the wife of one of the sons of the prophets cried to Elisha, “Your servant my husband is dead, and you know that your servant feared the Lord, but the creditor has come to take my two children to be his slaves.” And Elisha said to her, “What shall I do for you? Tell me; what have you in the house?” And she said, “Your servant has nothing in the house except a jar of oil.” Then he said, “Go outside, borrow vessels from all your neighbors, empty vessels and not too few. Then go in and shut the door behind yourself and your sons and pour into all these vessels. And when one is full, set it aside.” So she went from him and shut the door behind herself and her sons. And as she poured they brought the vessels to her. When the vessels were full, she said to her son, “Bring me another vessel.” And he said to her, “There is not another.” Then the oil stopped flowing. She came and told the man of God, and he said, “Go, sell the oil and pay your debts, and you and your sons can live on the rest.”
How would you describe the woman’s posture and attitude when she approached Elisha regarding her circumstances?
How did Elisha communicate compassion toward her?
What does this story reveal about God’s character and concern for people?
A Closer Look at Our Culture
Matthew 5:5
Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
James Truslow Adams, The Epic of America
The American Dream is that dream of a land in which life should be better and richer and fuller for everyone, with opportunity for each according to ability or achievement. … It is … a dream of social order in which each man and each woman shall be able to attain to the fullest stature of which they are innately capable, and be recognized by others for what they are, regardless of the fortuitous circumstances of birth or position.
Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert, When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor . . . and Yourself
The claim here is not that the poor are inherently more righteous or sanctified than the rich. There is no place in the Bible that indicates that poverty is a desirable state or that material things are evil. In fact, wealth is viewed as a gift from God. The point is simply that, for His own glory, God has chosen to reveal His kingdom in the place where the world, in all of its pride, would least expect it, among the foolish, the weak, the lowly, and the despised.
Why do you think America has historically prioritized the belief that anyone can attain greater prosperity through hard work and innate talent?
How has the “American Dream” benefitted our society, and how has it failed us?
How can financial success diminish a person’s openness to understanding humanity’s need for divine help and rescue?
How can our response to our spiritual poverty shape our response to financial poverty?
A Closer Look at Compassion
Greg Boyle, Tattoos on the Heart
Here is what we seek: a compassion that can stand in awe at what the poor have to carry rather than stand in judgment at how they carry it.
Isaiah 58:10
…and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry
and satisfy the needs of the oppressed,
then your light will rise in the darkness,
and your night will become like the noonday.
Joanna Macy
Compassion literally means to feel with, to suffer with. Everyone is capable of compassion, and yet everyone tends to avoid it because it’s uncomfortable. And the avoidance produces psychic numbing – resistance to experiencing our pain for the world and other beings.
What, exactly, is required of us to cultivate a compassion that “can stand in awe of what the poor have to carry”?
What does Isaiah 58:10 promise to those who sacrifice in order to relieve the suffering of others?
Since compassion requires us to experience the suffering of others, what spiritual practices can help us make space for compassion toward others?
Can you share a story of a time you benefitted from another person’s compassion?
Closing Thought
James 2:5
Listen, my dear brothers and sisters: Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him?
Spend the last few minutes of your time together talking about ways your group can care for the poor in practical ways. Feel free to check out Mosaic Street Ministry, to find a list of items you can donate or for links to serve the people who visit our campus each week for supplies, life-changing help, and a hot meal. Lastly, spend a few minutes praying for the poor in Austin, asking God to increase your compassion toward them and show you how to love them as he has loved the world.