10 Jan Discussion Guide: Rise and Fall Week 10
Prayer
Take the first 10 minutes of your time together to listen to what God is doing in one another’s lives and pray for any specific needs people in your group may have.
This week we conclude our series called Rise and Fall. We are taking a look at the life of King David and seeing that, through his successes and his failures, David does indeed point us to the Greatest King of all, Jesus.
Discussion Questions
Dr. Tim Keller, Counterfeit Gods
“When anything in life is an absolute requirement for your happiness and self-worth, it is essentially an ‘idol,’ something you are actually worshiping.”
What would you say are some of the idols of our culture?
Why do you think it is so tempting for us to put our hope and trust in created things rather than a Creator God?
The lure of idolatry is the sense of control. The very first sin every committed was baited with the lie that we could be like God, deciding what is good and evil. In other words, we could be in control. When we put our hope and trust and our identity in people or material objects then we are trusting in something we can see, something we can manage and possibly even predict. But, when it comes to God we can’t do those things. God is above us, beyond us, and his primary concern is not our comfort and happiness, and that scares us immensely. So, in our attempts of self-preservation we turn to that which is “safe” and “predictable,” namely other forms of creation, to find rest for our wearied souls.
How have you seen this kind of mis-prioritization distract people from who God is calling them to be?
People will chase after an identity they feel gives them worth. Be it the identity of a beauty to adore, a lover who is needed, a person of power and popularity, etc. putting our trust and identity in created things will keep us from seeing ourselves the way God sees us, our true selves. This mis-prioritization has lead to church splits, broken marriages, and addiction, to name a few, in the lives of people who profess to follow Christ because when we turn our eyes away from Christ as the center of our existence we are turning away from the One who says we are loved exactly as He made us to be. We cover our ears to the sound of the King of the Universe saying we belong and instead listen to the voices of lesser beings telling us what we need to do in order to fit in
1 Corinthians 2:11
For who knows a person’s thoughts except the spirit of that person, which is in him? So also no one comprehends the thoughts of God except the Spirit of God.
How does the fact that God is unpredictable make you feel? Why?
Have you ever experienced something that caused you to question what exactly God was up to? Would you care to share that story?
How would life be different if we were able to predict and control God’s plans for our lives?
Initially the ability to predict and control God may sound like a good idea. It may make us feel safer having that kind of control. But, stop and ponder the implications of such a reality. The moment God becomes predictable and controllable he ceases to be God, and if He is not God then someone else will have to be. That will either be you or someone or something else. I think we all know how horrific the idea of us being God is, but we need to also realize that if someone or something else is God he, she, or it would not be under your control either. In other words, unless you are God you cannot escape the fact that someone, or something, else is ultimately in control and therefore unpredictable. The question we must ask ourselves, is who better for that to be than a God who is willing to give Himself to us in love?
Susannah Spurgeon
“How wise should we be if, with joyful certainty, we accepted each unfolding of God’s will as a proof of His faithfulness and love!”
How would life be different if we were able to trust, accept and rest in the fact that whatever God allows is done in faithfulness and love?
1 Samuel 15:22-23, After King Saul’s rebellion against God
And Samuel said, “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to listen than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of divination, and presumption is as iniquity and idolatry. Because you have rejected the word of the Lord, he has also rejected you from being king.”
What does Samuel say is the heart behind idolatry?
Samuel says that presumption is as iniquity and idolatry. That word presumption literally means to coerce, or push someone into doing something. Saul had become fearful of the Philistines and grew impatient waiting for Samuel. So, rather than waiting and trusting what God had said He would do if Saul obeyed, Saul decided to try to force God’s hand by offering the sacrifice himself. Saul thought he could control God and thereby ultimately was trusting in himself and not in the faithfulness of God. That is the heart of idolatry. It is the attempt to force God’s hand by taking what we want and presuming He will bless it. We get into the relationship we know we shouldn’t be in. We let that relationship go places we know it shouldn’t go. We buy things we know we don’t actually need. We perform religious actions in an attempt to earn righteousness. All of this is without faith and trust in the goodness and faithfulness of God. This is why the writer of Hebrews said that without faith it is impossible to please God.
What, then, would you say is the heart behind living a consecrated life of worship towards God?
Trusting in His goodness and faithfulness towards us regardless of what our circumstances may say about it. Living a consecrated life means allowing who God is to determine our circumstances rather than allowing our circumstances to determine who we believe God to be.
1 John 4:18-19
There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. We love because he first loved us.”
How does remembering what Jesus went through for us give us the faith and courage to live for Him?
When we look at what Jesus was willing to go through on our behalf we have a guarantee of God’s goodness, lovingkindness and perfect righteousness. Therefore, we know we can trust Him with our lives. That is what Paul meant when he said we can rejoice in our sufferings (Romans 5:3). Jesus consecrated Himself for us. He humbled Himself in the form of a man. He lived the perfect life of obedience. He willingly submitted Himself to the will of God and suffered and died on the cross. The fact that He was willing to consecrate Himself in that way for us should move us to a place of wanting to consecrate ourselves for Him.
Closing Thought
N.T. Wright, The Challenge of Jesus
“Our task as image-bearing, God-loving, Christ-shaped, Spirit-filled Christians, following Christ and shaping our world, is to announce redemption to a world that has discovered its fallenness, to announce healing to a world that has discovered its brokenness, to proclaim love and trust to a world that knows only exploitation, fear and suspicion…And if the gospel of Jesus is not the key to this task, then what is?”
How would a group of Christians living consecrated lives of worship in relationship with one another and the world around us announce God’s redemption has come?